Why should you periodically perform a relationship review? And how often should you do it?

You should always reevaluate your wants and needs to make sure you are not succumbing to desires that don’t meet your goals. I do this daily.

Many times I catch myself doing things or getting ready to buy stuff that I know I don’t need. It’s not easy! But, the results are more than worth the effort.

Relationships are flexible and you are always reevaluating yourself and the relationship. You must change and adapt, make concessions…it’s a part of the whole relationship process.

Everything starts and ends with you. If you want to improve your relationship ensure that you are not problem. :)

If you are unable to admit you need to change how you view life and relationships, then you might as well close your browser, forget about being happy, getting and keeping a good man. Just refer one of your friends to the site who is serious about changing her life for the better.

Please understand that I don’t expect you to change over night. It is very difficult to break and change old and bad habits. Especially when society is telling you it’s okay to be that way. What I do expect is for you to be serious about your life and where you desire to go!

The Challenge

I want you to write down five goals you have been trying to achieve over the last 2-years.

Now ask yourself, “How do I think I will achieve my goals if I continue to do the things I have always done and think the things I have always thought?”

It will be obvious that you will not achieve your goals as quickly as you like and in the manner you had envisioned! What do you have to loose if you change the way you think and how you view things? Absolutely nothing!

When I wasn’t feeling good about how my life was going I would say to myself,…

“Shawn, you’re already starting at the bottom of the ladder, so what do you have to lose? If you attempt to climb that ladder and fall, you don’t have far to fall. And, when you fall you will end up where you started. You can get back up, learn from your mistakes, and start climbing again.”

Start living your dreams, achieving your goals, be happy and stop fantasizing about it.

All it takes is a change in your perception. And the only person stopping you is you!

One of your new goals is to conduct a relationship review every week. Can you do that?

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