Now why would I say, “Women in Control” and “Women Have The Power?” Keep reading to see if it’s true!

Still want to know why you end up in unhappy relationships? If I had to summarize it, I would say, “Men only get away with what you allow them to get away with!”

Most men do not force you to be with them. Most men don’t force you to put up with their crap. Most men do not threaten you to stay with them (unless they are abusers). Most men will be tempted to push the boundaries of your trust and nerves if they feel they can get away with it.

What I do know for sure is if you stand up and stop taking the bull, put your foot down, and demand to be respected, treated better, shown love, attention, affection and much more then men will have no choice but to comply.

Whether you know it or not, most men are gullible when it come to women. No man, regardless of what he says, wants to be without a woman. Every man will listen to, and follow the directions of, a woman if she knows what she’s doing. :)

Now if you don’t believe me, I want you to try a little test.

First, I want you to wear something sexy around your man and take note of his reaction. Does he tap you on the butt? Does he fondle you? Does he grab and kiss you? Does he look at you in a sexy way?

Second, I want you to think of something that you have been trying to get him to do for the longest around the house. Then I want you, while you’re wearing that sexy outfit, to ask him to do or fix that particular item.

Third, when he’s finished doing whatever you asked him to do, I want you to give him a nice passionate kiss then go and change into something less sexy.

As you will see, he will do whatever you want. Now here’s the problem with this approach.

The man may do what you asked but he did it because he was motivated by whatever you wore thinking he was going to have sex

You don’t want to keep putting sexy outfits on to get him to do stuff or act right.

Since you already know this will be a one-shot deal with him, how can you get him to do more without resorting to using your sexiness? :)

Finally, not only do you want him to do more but also how do you get him to do it consistently?

I know I shouldn’t be saying this, but men are like dogs. They need to be trained. If you get a good man and train him well, he will do exactly what you want him to do.

The problem with that is you know you will get bored with a man that does everything you want him to do. You may not want to admit it, but you like it when your man flexes his manhood and put you in your place.

So, what you need is a man who is flexible, well rounded and doesn’t mind being trained in some things. Don’t mind submitting to you, but know when to take control of you and a situation.

Although men act as though they are strong, when it comes to the right woman they are like clay waiting to be molded.

Remember, put your foot down, state what you need, stay firm and watch what happens! Either the man will leave, which means he didn’t love you anyway or he will modify his behavior to fit your needs if he truly loves you.

What do you think about “Women in Control” and “Women Have The Power?” You think it’s true?

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